Lori Simons

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Found out the guy I was dating was dating 3 other women. We left him and became best friends

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About Lori Simons

This past January I went to a restaurant to only find the guy I was dating for 4 years with another woman. I had no idea he was seeing another woman (now found out it is one of his employees) and was completely devastated. It broke me beyond belief! I was so upset that I posted his picture on a facebook group that you can see if your guy is dating other women. An hour later I get a message from another woman that she too, had been dating him for 5 years the same time l had. She (Stephanie) and I met in person that night and just cried our eyes out! Both of our lives had been just destroyed thinking the man we had loved with everything had been seeing other women unbeknownst to either of us. Not only that but then a fourth woman now reached out to me that not only had she been dating him for 2 years but also living with him the whole time. He would hide all her stuff when we would come over and stay. The woman I caught him with, even though we reached out to her and tell her the truth, chose to believe him and stayed. The other women and I chose to walk away. The one woman, Stephanie and I ended up coming best friends dealing with the trauma and all the lies we found out. So much had come out about this evil personality he truly has and playing victim because we caught him. He is a complete sociopath and it has taken a year for us to heal in this journey. We may truly never heal, but we are working every day to live our best lives, especially when when got no closure, no apology and a narcissist that claims he was the victim. If we can recover from this then we want to let other women know they can as well.